Different Temperament Types

I retain wondered how learned my spirit impart help me in my per boyal life? I wonder why I do certain things, and react the modal value that I do. I believe the results of this nature study go away join me insight into some of those whys. This study with the four different temperament types bequeath confuse an underlying reason for my behaviors. I leave try to use this information to not use the negative behaviors, which arise from my particular temperament type. When I took the personality test in the Temperament Sorter I was classified ad as a defender.This trait is characterized by strong managerial and organisational skills, dependability and seriousness, being down-to-earth and conservative. The Keirsey website describes Guardians as the cornerst integrity of society and claims that they involve up 40 to 45 percent of the population. It highlights that the greatest strength in the Guardian trait is my logistical intelligence. It further mentions that, my personalit y dictates that when given an beta choice between two methods, I exit choose the one I am more(prenominal) familiar with rather than something sassy (the invite over experimentation principle).An caseful is when I want to take my children for an outing, tour a new place leave behind act as more passion and a newer learning experience I tend to choose the places I am more familiar with. I am real buttoned-down to the highest degree change, and realizing this I will make a strong bm to each(prenominal)ow myself to venture out more and in doing so bring more exciting experiences to the lives of my children as well. An other signifi domiciliatet behavior is link to my temperaments respect for rules and say-so. thusly, when my 11 year old son do his own Halloween decorations which tend to be rather scary for other neighbors, and I got some rather unkind comments, I immediately explained this to my son, and made an effort to remove the scary decorations and place them in side the house, and only permit the more happy Halloween decorations re chief(prenominal). Realizing my strong belief in rules, I will further ensure that what is asked of me and my children is too fair in our viewpoint.Also, since Guardians are very serious some their duties and responsibilities the third important behavior that can be said about me is my need to complete a task when called upon. Thus during my daughters fund raiser at school, even though I was asked to do many last minute requests, because I knew this is important for her school, I seek and true to get things done to the best of my ability, even though I primed(p) a huge stress upon myself. Lastly my need to follow schedules, and deadlines that is oftentimes a great trait in organizations at home can often lead to friction.It is very important for me to realize this drawback, and allow more flexibility. I believe if I can do this, I will help myself, and my family be more relaxed. As my mother always says w hat will happen if your son doesnt finish his home diddle, Friday night, he can do it Saturday or Sunday, and still feel he has had some freedom 2 After reading my temperament, I think many of the traits of a Guardian are similar to what would be considered a sober instructor. For prototype, Guardians will unremarkably abide by the rules and respect authority.This characteristic sets a good example for the students. A teacher should always adopt a fair attitude, when it comes to make any form of evaluation, and must always be fair in their profession and while assessing students on their performance, instead of personal rapports and likings. One of the main characteristics of Guardians is that they always want fairness. Guardians tend to find satisfaction in doing work that involves detail a good teacher should be meticulous and reach an eye for detail.In fact, a disorganized person would find article of belief unsuitable and unfulfilling. Well thought-out objects and progra ms for teaching will assist the productivity of a teacher. This temperament is always concerned about the welfare of people and will look after the physical unavoidably of others, which is ideal in a teaching situation. Guardians expect to be held accountable and to take responsibility. They happily articulatio humeri the load that they k instantly needs to be done. A teacher should be dedicated towards their work.They should not kill time in the classroom and conceal for the school bell to ring. Instead, taking out time and going the spare mile for the students is what makes an ideal teacher. A good teacher must have good time management skills and always value the importance of time, this will help the students to get organized and further enhance their learning by them learning to better manage their time. Guardians can have a set of fun, but are quite serious about their duties responsibilities.A teacher who can have fun with their students, yet to remain serious about respo nsibilities so the students can both relax and enjoy the teacher, yet also have respect is a hallmark of a great teacher 3 Research shows that shows that trade good of fit between your childs temperament and your parenting way of life is important for healthy social and emotional development. Differences in child temperament require differences in parental ease upling to achieve a good fit.For this to occur after reading my temperament I have to break My demands or expectations with what my child is able to do, given my childs temperament, age and abilities. I would now start by learning about my childs temperament as well. If I can understand my childs temperament then I can plan ahead to prevent potential problems. If I can learn about their difficulties, then I could use strategies to make the specific situation easier for everyone. For example as a Guardian I believe in honor and order, and sometimes worry that respect for authority, even fundamental sense of upright and w rong, is being lost.My son as a Rational disregards any authority or customary procedure that wastes time and resources I have tried to convey this message to him by teaching him why rules are important, and self-aggrandizing him specific examples, versus hardly asking him to obey the rules and not be allowed to motion me in any form. Because as a rational he trusts logic, and needs to understand why these rules are necessary. My daughter on the other hand is a Guardian like myself, and because she prefers sameness, I take my time introducing new things to her.For example when I take her to a new class, if I simply ask her to go and join in, and walk away, it will end badly. I have tried many different activities with her, and if I sit with her and give her time to explore to become comfortable, she is always happy, and engages beautifully. Considering the vast differences between our temperaments, and all the strengths and weaknesses we possess, it is important to learn how each temperament type will move with each other and hopefully combine traits to bring about goodness of fit.